Hi there, so I [25M] have a friend [27F] who has been stressed out recently since she has been trying to get a job in the USA since she needs it to stay due to visa requirements. Recently, she made a new IG account and followed me without warning, and I first followed her but then retracted that because I didn’t know if it was a fake account or not since she didn’t tell me. I didn’t ask her about it since I am not trying to bother her with that question- as it was she wasn’t replying every couple days due to her being too busy with figuring out her situation. Well, one day she leaves me this passive aggressive voice msg stating that she saw that and wanted to know what was the reason why I unfollowed. I was about to explain myself to her, but then she was reiterating what she has been going through, and she said that if she had free time, she would rather talk to her closer friends. Fair - I can completely understand that, however at the end of the note she then started saying that her close mutual friend of ours has trying to reach out to her and she was not able to reply to her. I got pissed at that, because based on her tone and her explanation of who she rather mingle with, it seemed pretty insulting that she was making it seem that she was doing me a favor reaching out to me. So, I only replied explaining why I unfollowed, but I was pissed to her saying this - I hate it when ppl act as if they are doing me a favor. Days later, she said she was settled now in a different state and she is much happier - I then told her we needed to talk about that note she left and said in a scolding manner that I don’t appreciate any sort of note like that and if she doesn’t want to talk with me, then don’t. She got upset with me since she said she won’t tolerate my tone. She even said that those were my own insinuations and nothing she said was wrong. She did apologize to me however, and I apologized for my tone. I wanted to see AITA for telling her off on her comparison and the implication she was doing me favor my reaching out to me - and also if I was wrong to assume that. I get she was stressed, but I don’t believe that gives her the right to devalue who I am to her. Thank you all.