I'll make it as short as possible. My 28F, friend 33F is pregnant. She can before her pregnancy she would often forget to cancel meetups. Recently it's become even worse, it's irritating. Often she doesn't even cancel until I ask: where are you? How long till you arrive ? The last 3 times were like this. The last of these 3 times I drive an hour because she wanted to go there and I messaged her. He replied she can't come xyz's father died, they have to go there. No problem. But from my understanding they knew he died 2 days prior to the meet up. So I scolded her a bit: you know it's not a problem to cancel but it's really rude to wait until last minute or when im already there. Since then she's not replied and made another friend tell me that i went to far /that im rude. So AITA?