Howdy! Lil bit of context - me and my ex parted ways. She went back to live at her parents we share custody of our boy Bernie. Bernie lives with me because she puts everyone else’s wants and needs before her own child. Hence why she is my ex….was too busy making everyone happy and treating us poorly. She got in touch and last minute, asked if she could collect Bernie and take him out for the day…..and she wanted to collect him in 10 minutes. I was cooking lunch and asked if I could have 20 minutes to eat my lunch and then get him ready. Nope. That was not allowed because her and her parents were ready to come and collect him and they didn’t want to wait. So I had to stop cooking. Get him ready. I have a pet peave now when a loved one always puts others first. Especially when it’s something like waiting an extra 10 minutes so I can eat my lunch. I’ve said this to her millions of times during the relationship and she still does it. So I kick off and make that point. She flips it and says what’s the big deal!? I know I’ve put this on you last minute but It’s not complicated. We’re ready now. To me this is disrespectful. I made a point not to to do it again. I asked when he will be dropped back and she gave a time………..Did she stick to it…….no. Did she give me 10 minutes so I had to stop what I was doing and rush back home….yes When she dropped him off shouted and her and slammed the door in her face. Called her a b and c word….. AITAH for getting angry and that it wasn’t a big deal Or was she being an AH and my frustration was justified……but the cursing