(Warning long read feel free to skim through) So for context I'm 16M and I have autism. So I was telling my friends on a group chat I'm on that I think I may be bi-curious and this one person on there responded saying he knew it and that his gaydar had told him, I asked him politely to please give me a normal response and he started being a dick about it, I politely asked again for an honest normal dumbed down response (since he confuses me at times) he then replied with "well this is the real me (evidently being a dick) and if you hate it then I'll leave (the group chat)" I then said I didn't want him to leave to which he replied with "well if you don't like the real me tough shit" in which I asked him to stop being a dick head then repeated his earlier words and started putting words in my mouth in which I ended up snapping at him. So am I the asshole?