So, I have been friends with this girl (18) for about a year now (me,17), let’s call her Mj, and we have gotten somewhat close. Backstory: She was a friend of a friend (which I have gotten closer with now, not the girl Im discussing, let’s call her Belle). We all worked together. So, I faced a “situation” with a guy I talked to. I ended up really liking him after we started talking for a while (we met at Belle’s grad party). He ended up not being honest with his intentions and “past relationships”. I essentially found out that he was “not a good guy” let’s say. But yk. Because of that and how it went down (I told them that I delivered on his want of being genuine, but he didn’t live up to my expectations of being open and honest), I didn’t find it hard to move on and look for better things. The only thing with that is, my friends didn’t believe that I was over it. Mind you, we talked for a couple of weeks, went out once, then lasted for two more weeks before I called it off. I am socially awkward and have a hard time communicating clearly in-person, but I feel like I made myself clear on how I felt and that I was completely over it. Everyone one seemed to at the very least respect that, all except for Mj. She still believed I wasn’t. I got embarrassed by the whole situation with the guy tbh (because apparently I was of the many who fell for his bs), and am sick and tired of not feeling like I am able to move on because people don’t believe me. I wanted to be honest with her and “state boundaries” but I have never done so before. Idk if I was just young and was worse socially, but I would always just drift away. I don’t want to because I don’t want to seem “sheltered and immature”, which are Mj’s words regarding another recent conversation she used to describe me to another one of our friends. Here are the texts I sent her. Please let me know if I was too harsh. I just wanted to be honest. And please let me know what I should do moving forward. Thanks and I hope you guys understand 💜💜💜