I’m 21 and have struggled with my weight my entire life. I’m not excessively obese, I don’t need assistance walking or anything and I’m pretty active. I’m more muscle then anything, just have a round stomach is all. Today I brought 2 tenders and a handful of wedges from the deli home. My grandma said that my dad (who had 4 tenders and more wedges than me) was eating normal and that what I had was way too much. I simply bought what I could handle eating. She does this thing where she finds any and everything to argue about and finally I said “I think you’re just trying to argue about any or everything again.” She got quiet and is giving me the silent treatment. So AITA?