I’m 32F and married to my husband who is 35M. We’ve been together for six years and our relationship is basically over. We don’t sleep in the same room anymore and we barely talk unless it’s about bills or something practical. I’m pretty sure he’s seeing someone else. His phone goes off late at night and he disappears for “work dinners” that don’t make sense. At this point I don’t even care enough to ask. The reason I haven’t filed for divorce is because of where we live. When he made partner last year, we moved into a luxury building in Manhattan. It’s the nicest place I’ve ever lived. There’s a gym, pool, concierge, and the apartment has a view people notice right away when they visit. Most of my social life now is centered around the building. I hang out with other women who live here, go to yoga downstairs, and my routine is completely tied to this place. If we split, I couldn’t afford it on my own. I’d have to move into a smaller apartment and start over. My sister says I’m selfish for staying, but a few friends say I’m being practical. So AITA for choosing the apartment over ending the marriage?