hi reddit, i need your honest judgement. this is about pokemon go, but it has become more about community and personal boundaries. background: I've play pokemon go for years, and around six months ago i got back into it full time for health and exercise. i had open heart surgery last September, so i often drive to gyms and raids instead of walking long distances. my local community ambassador, Let's call him Mr. W, invited me to join a community group and introduced me to the local meetups. the situation: two months ago I tried taking over as many gyms as possible for fun and noticed Mr. W had gyms near me. i took them a few times, which made him uncomfortable, so he asked me to leave his gyms alone. i respected this and stuck to my two local gyms, avoiding tension. while he was overseas for an event, i took over his gyms and let them cycle naturally. when he returned, he immediately went for two gyms i was holding. since then, he has been taking my gyms as soon as i place a pokemon, sometimes removing me from a gym where a teammate had been for 23 minutes, forcing me to wait the 10 minute cooldown before i could re-add my pokemon. he also blocked me on campfire, preventing me from seeing or participating in meetups, which goes against ambassador guidelines about fostering community. yesterday, he complained again, this time with two other people, who confirmed they had been tracking me outside the game to see when i drive to gyms. this has made me feel isolated and uneasy, and they now tell me i am not allowed to attend meetups with the community. i never targeted Mr. W personally, and I've told him and the others i have no issues with anyone. None of my actions violate Pokemon Go's guidelines. I just want to play the game normally and take my local gyms without it escalating. question: AITA for playing the game normally and taking gyms after he took mine?