My girlfriend of 3 years has been in an out of her job as a dancer at a club for the time that I’ve known her and before I met her. When she met me she quit on her own and continued with her other unrelated part time jobs out of respect for me. Last year I gave her the go ahead to start working as a dancer again because she was struggling on money and told me about how it’s such great money, super easy, fast money, etc. I was hesitant at first, but let her do it to see how it’d go. She currently has a part time job as a bartender that she works at one day a week for a 12 hour shift and pays it makes predictable, but low relatively low money. Her dancing job can earn her a few hundred dollars in a matter of an hour, but ALOT of times she will literally come home with nothing. She depends a lot on repeat customers that know her and if they don’t show up then she wont make anything because there’s 20 other dancers all competing for money. She chooses to work this job only 2-3 times a week because of the physicality of dancing and needing recovery days. She says she can’t work more than that. Because of the sporadic nature of the dancer job she never knows what she’ll end up getting paid. It’s always a gamble and it’s taking a toll on me as well. She’ll be short on cash sometimes and be in a depressed mood because she’s not making anything some weeks, but she’s addicted to the big cash days. The other night I told her to quit and find something that is consistent. Just something that you know what your pay will be and that way you can manage your money coming in better and not end up gambling everytime she works a shift at the club. She ended up getting pretty upset with me and told me that she doesn’t want to work long hours (8 hour shifts 5 days a week) and doesn’t want me telling her what to do. I work 40 hours a week and don’t get to dictate my schedule. I’ve tried getting her to apply at other jobs and she’s done some of those jobs very briefly, but nothing has stuck. She looks at me like I’m crazy when I tell her to please go find a stable consistent job even if it’s working at a fast food restaurant or whatever is available. AITA? TLDR; my (27m) gf (27f) got very upset when I told her to leave her job as a dancer because the money is super inconsistent and leaving her with highs and lows of money. I’d rather her work a stable low paying job if she has to. AITA?