My fiance has a habit of carrying off food and drinks mostly to our bedroom and bathroom sometimes. She doesn’t really eat a whole meal in these parts of the house, but rather snacks. She’ll munch on a bag of chips, candy cereal, or makes herself a small plate of food and eats it while relaxing in the tub or bed. I occasionally do this kind of stuff, but it’s pretty rare and I always pickup after myself. It’ll take her days a lot of times to start removing the glasses/bowls from above our headboard and along our tub and sinks. I told her the other day to stop doing this because there’s a lot of breakables and it’s just gross. There have been some mishaps as well. She broke a glass in the bathroom, some bisque went flying all over our bedroom area rug because she had a bowl in the bed, spilled some coke on the sheets the other night, etc. Right now I am counting 6 glasses in various parts of the bathroom, a half eaten candy bar on top the toilet reservoir, some empty chip bags, and a few glasses above our headboard. She tells me to just leave her alone and let her relax, but I feel that she needs to be confined to eating and drinking in just the living room and kitchen. AITA? TLDR; My (28m) fiancé (26f) has a habit of leaving glasses and food in our bedroom and bathroom. I told her to start only eating in the living room and kitchen, but she does not want to. She says that I should let her relax. AITA?