I (30f), my best friend (28f) and her close friend from work (32f) are on a vacation out of state. There are a few other people who stayed earlier in the week and a few who are arriving tomorrow. We are on this trip and I think everything is going great. I’m the only one not working remotely so I spend the week days just trying to stay out of everyone’s way and help as much as possible. About 4 days in I start to notice people treating me strangely, I try to brush it off but it really starts to bother me. People stop talking when I enter a room or move out of my way super quickly. I started to retreat and keep to myself because I didn’t want to cause drama. The rest of the trip kind of keeps feeling like this. I try to pull my best friend, who I’ll call Cam, aside to talk but the work friend, who I’ll call Tia, is always there. We go out for dinner and I find a place with a specific type of food that Tia had been requesting even though I personally hate that type of food. I’m just trying to make sure everyone has a good time and DD. When we get to the restaurant everyone orders appetizers that I can’t eat and I don’t have a chance to put an order in. I’m hungry and stressed because I’m trying really hard to find something to eat and didn’t want to let the group know that I’m struggling. Apparently I didn’t do a very good job at hiding. I apologized multiple times since I really didn’t want to ruin their night. Tia makes a comment about the night not being great but it was still good. I had already felt like the odd one out for the last couple of days and this hit me much harder than it normally would have. The next day I drive 3hrs round trip to drop one of the girls at the airport and when I get back I instantly feel like I am unwanted. I ignore it the best I can because I have therapy in 20mins. In therapy I start talking and it all spills out. I didn’t realize how hurt I was by feeling singled out. I know I’m not in a place to say anything to anyone yet so I do my best to stay out of everyone’s way. I mentioned briefly that I had a headache to Cameron because I had been crying a bit in therapy (this is a normal occurrence for me due to some family issues, abuse and general trauma shit) and told her I’d talk to her about it later. Cameron brings it up again and I tell her that I was feeling like I was singled out. I didn’t want to get into specifics because I didn’t want to start drama. She calls Tia in and tells her everything I’ve said and the two of them proceed to grill me with Tia taking the lead. I slip up and say that someone told me to shut up, Tia points out that it was Cam who said that. I feel trapped and they keep talking at me, telling me I should feel better after therapy and not so sad. Tia keeps telling me what I should do. Eventually I just get up and start doing my dishes. The next day I wake up and Cam is still sleeping and Tia has an attitude with me. Apparently Cam was up all night because what she said hurt me.