I've been so stressed out and overwhelmed with life and now I have a rib out and a cough so I think things kinda boiled over. It feels like my husband never makes time for us. He is home just enough to eat and sleep. His schedule goes like this... He gets up and goes to work, goes to the gym for an hour, comes home to eat dinner with us and then he either goes to his office, or spends it doing something random but just productive enough that I can't directly complain about it. I'm overwhelmed because most of the house chores fall to me, I'm parenting all day, and trying to work from home. I have to work from home because we can't live off his income alone, and he doesn't want to pay for anyone for childcare. So anyway, he came home today and was a little upset with me. When I asked him what's up, he grumbled (over the fresh tomato soup and grilled cheese sandwich I made, might I add) that he's just hungry because he didn't eat all day. I just blinked at him and asked why he didn't pack a lunch so he wouldn't be hungry. He responded with something along the lines of he hoped *I* wouldve prepared something for him. I just started laughing, which caused a cough and then I started crying from the pain of my rib. He called me dramatic and started leaving the house. I asked where he was going and he said he was going to his parents house to cut his brothers hair. Once I calmed down my cough, I walked out and told him that he can just stay at his parents house. I don't want to see him. He slammed his car door and zoomed off without saying anything back. It's been a few hours and I'm still seething from the whole encounter and he's probably going to be home soon. Is this something I apologize for? I'm just so upset. On one hand, I do feel bad for saying that and feel like I went pretty far. On the other hand, he left to his parents house again, without even considering that he left me to clean dinner myself and that he didn't even spend any time with us.