Hi everyone here’s the deal. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. Prior to that dated for another 7 and at one point we split for a year before we got back together and got married. During that time he dated someone else and I knew all about it. I didn’t date anyone but had two instances where something intimate happened with two different people (not sex). When we discussed getting back together I thought I had told him about both situations and now there’s an issue that has caused a week of distance and anger from him. Last week he made a comment and somehow my reaction referenced both of those encounters as that’s kind of what his original comment was about. He blew up and stated I never told him about one of the situations. I swear that I recall a full on conversation at that time when I told him but he does have a tendency to remember more things in general than I do. Anyway I told him nothing happened that it wasn’t a big deal and that I had told him. He’s been angry since and said that had he known there’s a chance we wouldn’t have got back together and maybe not ever got married. I think he’s being ridiculous and childish but he’s stating that he should have known then since we both shared details about our time apart and that he should have been able to make a choice on the facts and here we are years later now he’s questioning trusting me and our entire relationship. I finally got to the point where I thinks it comical how big of a deal he’s making this especially because nothing happened but he’s adamant that I didn’t tell him clearly for a reason and there’s more to this than what I’m saying. AITA for honestly thinking he’s being a baby and that all of this is just dumb?