We have a couple friend (that we’ve known for a few years now) with a 5 year old kid (my wife and I also have 3 year old kid) and we usually get together a few times a year to celebrate birthdays and spend quality time with each other usually just to catch up, play board games, karaoke, potluck, etc. We had a recent get together and everything started off just fine and we started to play a few of the board games. We try to be inclusive and make sure that everyone is having fun which means that our kids get to join us in our game sessions (depending on the game we’re playing that evening). While playing some the games, our couple friend’s kid was getting sad/emotional that they weren’t winning or that we were being a bit too competitive and we were joking around about how their might cry so we would just let her have her way with some of the game rounds (all of us had some light-alcoholic drinks throughout the evening which could’ve contributed to the extra competitiveness from everybody). We have always joked around with each other and their kid and this has never been an issue previously. We tried our best to accommodate and played a different game so that their kid would feel included. Fast forward to the end of the day and we all say goodbye and our couple friend headed home and we thought we had another successful get together. The following day, we get a message from our friend expressing that we were too insensitive and they’ve thanked us for being friends with them for years but they are essentially cutting us off and no longer want to be friends after this incident. Everything came as a surprise to my wife and I because we thought that everyone for the most part was just having fun and nothing “mean” was ever said to anyone. Am I an asshole to think that it’s unfair for our couple friend to not want to be friends with us anymore just because of that?