I 19 TM (trans man) had mentioned wanting to go to this convention multiple times over the last two years.( Let's call in nerdcon)For context for about month and a half this friend group all moved to an area about 30 min away from me and has been too busy hang out with me. I've tried to schedule things to do with them a couple weeks in advance but they are always too busy, because of this and the fact I don't have a license rn I have become severely depressed. Two of the times I called one of them (let's call her grace) she brefly mentioned the con but never decused details with me a. After awhile I just figured we weren't going I texted one of them the weekend of the con asking if they wanted to hangout at a comic shop we all frequent that night. When one of the ( let's call her Amy) texts me saying there still at nerdcon after asking her she states that apparently grace said I was busy. Incredibly hurt and frustrated I start ranting about how they hadn't had any time hangout in the past month, but they can plan a trip to nerdcon. Afterwards me and Amy call and she apologizes we agree to talk about what happened later. I go play some MTG ( Magic The Gathering) with other people at the comic shop and try to enjoy my night. Around 11 at night I'm in the middle of playing another MTG when I get another call from Amy, but it turns out to be grace screaming about me taking behind her back ( I find out later Amy was driving the car during this whole conversation with here bf's in the back) she goes off about some personal things going on In her life and ranting about how I need to suck it up cause I am in a better situation and shouldn't be depressed I said something pretty nasty in the moment that I regret. stating that I don't care that ___ happened you haven't been in my life recently anyways so why should I Care about what is going on in your life. Afterwards she says she doesn't care that I wanted to ___ myself. I tell her to leave me alone after this and we'll talk about this later. The day after I talk to Amy apologized for the way I acted toward her , and we talk some things out we agreed to hang out soon. A couple days after this I asked Amy if we ( me her and her bf) could hang out at a local shoping area we all like . I specifically asked if we could meet there cause I didn't want to see grace. She then states that grace is probably going to want to go either way and says we should just both forgive each other and that both were in the wrong . I respond by saying I don't want to see her rn , and I'm not ready to forgive her. As I finished up texting I got a call from graces bf. He starts yelling at me about how he's a real man and how about how I have balls to be talking shit about grace, and then made a nasty comment about me and my bf being Poly. After this grace and Amy's bf start ranting about how I'm in the wrong and all of this is my fault for not texting her enough ranting again about how my life is much better then hers.AITA