Ok, so I feel like I am here to vent for than anything but here me out. AITA for treating my brother and my cousin differently. So my little brother and my cousin are both 8 and unfortunately the responsibility of making sure they do their homework lies on my shoulders. That being said my brother is stubborn if you use a gentle tone or tell him something once he will not do it. Even if he knows how. On the other hand my cousin is very obedient you don't have to threaten him with any grounding or something sort. He just does things when asked. The problem is my mother said I am ‘humuliating my brother’ because I ask him the homework questions out loud but I do this with both kids and I only have to raise my voice slightly with my brother because even the basic tasks he will ignore me. So basically the way I see it is to save myself time and energy I need to just stop helping my brother with his homework and help my cousin. That way my mother won't accuse me of ‘humiliating him’ etc. But without the homework I will be spending less time with my brother and I don't want him to feel like I am picking favourites. But honestly there is no other solution. So AITA if I just stop helping him and focus on my cousin only.