Hi, longtime lurker first time poster. Almost 3 weeks ago I moved to a different state for a job. The job provided housing, and I soon came to learn who my roommate is. We began texting and it turned out we have a lot in common. She even asked me to teach her how to cook. So when we moved in, her energy completely shifted. I didn't understand what happened. I was there for about a week, and while I was there she ignored me while we were living together and avoided me while we were at work together. It got to the point where the rest of the staff started treating me coldly as well (they had all worked together previously). I wanted to make sure that we got along, so I picked up her favorite oreos and left them in the kitchen with a note I wrote for her. I also offered to cook breakfast for her, but again, she just ignored me. On the day that I quit, she texted me telling me that she's not comfortable with me using her silverware or sharing food. At this point I had no clue that this was the beef, but I profusely apologized and offered to buy her a new set of silverware. She had also mentioned that she was keeping track of how much dish soap and how much of her spices I was using (I used her salt shaker). I texted her a couple of times, emphasizing that I want us to get along. She promptly left me on read. As I thought about it more I realized that I don't want to live with someone who isn't good at communicating. If she had just told me when it began to bother her, we both wouldn't have been as uncomfortable as we were. I realized that there was no turning back from what had happened, I quit the job, and moved back home the very next day. So my question to you is, AITA for using my roommate's silverware? EDITED TO ADD: This keeps getting brought up in the replies so I'm going to clear it up here. We worked at a camp together where our cabin came fully furnished. I assumed that the kitchenware was a part of that furnishing. I didn't know that the silverware belonged to her, if I had known it belonged to her I would have asked her if I can use it. Also, before we began living together, she had mentioned wanting to learn how to cook and I told her I would teach her. This obviously implies sharing food and/or utensils.