My partner and I have had a baby name picked out for years. Today we found out a family friend is planning on using the same name that we chose. They're baby is due first. They didn't know we had this name picked out. So it's not like they picked it after we told them or anything. The problem is I don't like most boy names, and I don't like any names as much as this one. I still want to use the name. I've had my heart set on it for years. But I was told by another friend that it would be an a$$hole move to still use the name. The thing is I've already got it embroidered on stuff that we bought for our baby. The family friend that's using it doesn't live in the same state as us. We see them at the most once a year and usually less than that. We don't talk to them much other than occasionally over text to check in. They talk to my siblings more than me. We're friends but not like my siblings are with them. I really love this name and don't want to reorder the stuff we already have. Would I be an a$$hole if I still used the name we picked? I feel guilty for wanting to, but at the same time there are so many kids with this name so it's not like it's really rare, and the first and middle name would be completely different too. I wouldn't care if someone else used the name ,but some people are weird about it so idk. So AITA?