I (23M) am in a 2 year relationship with my girlfriend (21F). Recently she got into Law School (from 7:30pm to 10pm) and right away got a internship in an office next to her house (8am to 3pm) and lives 1h from me. I am now studying computer science from home and working at a tire factory (my work schedule changes weekly, from 7am/3pm to 11pm/6am). When her classes started, she's been more distant than ever. We used to text each other a lot and about everything, but now our conversations barely pass the "how are you?". This weekend I'm off work and i was planning to go and see her (it's been almost a month since last time) but she just said that she'll be busy with a study group today (Friday) and Saturday will go out with her friends. There were days when I didn't slept well just to be able to spend time with her, even with my exhausting work routine and graduation, at least once a week I was there. And I don't see the same effort by her. Sometimes our routines won't match and I get that. Law school isn't something easy, and I know that. 1 hour by car is a tiring journey and I absolutely know that. But a month without seeing each other and barely talking, I'm feeling more distant than ever. Am I being a needy mf for just wanting her to spend more time with me? edit: English is not my 1st language, so sorry for mistakes