Hi M14, for a little context, my mother passed away 6 months ago, leaving me with my sister and my dad. My dad and this one chick who I don’t want to see again started dating. I don’t really know how my dad and this woman started dating but it was almost as if she was wiping up my mom even living there, I walked in on them laying on the bed together, and being a little closer than they should of been. Ever since that happened, I knew that I wasn’t going to get along with her, forward 4 months, my aunt came down with her kids to stay for 3 weeks, long story short, aunt found out about the girlfriend, aunt cut the trip halfway through the first week. My dad is still wondering why they cut the trip not even a week in. on my birthday I didn’t get to pick where I wanted to eat, her 7 year old did, it was almost as if I was now being wiped from the picture. About 1 week ago, I was coming back from school, I heard my dads door rip open, she was speed-walking towards me then said with a cocky attitude, “don’t you remember what you called your dad this morning?” I said I didn’t call him anything, she replied with “Pussy ass bitch? You don’t remember saying that?” Then she walked away. Forward to today I was woken up this morning by my dad yelling at me on how I left the fridge in the garage open, I said, maybe you should take a look on the hinges I know I closed it last night, then he walked out the door, and then this girlfriends brother decided to say, “why did you tell him to shut the fuck up?” I tried to fight that but he just got up and walked out. 5 minutes later I get a call from my dad I pick the phone, the first thing he says to me, “I just got a long message saying you’ve been cussing me out from behind my back, your done” then the phone hung up. I’ve been planning on moving since they started dating. Am I the asshole here?