I’m a sahm of 2 under 2, he works, runs his own renovation company, hard labour job. I do everything in the house, cook, get groceries, laundry, dishes, floors, tidy up messes all day long. He takes out the trash (IF he remembers) He gets home and it’s bedtime. I told him he’s gotta do his laundry. He didn’t like that very much and said if he’s gotta do his own laundry, I gotta pay my own bills. For reference, from the start, before kids, I said I would not be a housewife. Lo and behold I’ve slowly turned into one. Just wondering how can I approach this in a healthy way??