Context: Some friends and I were in a Discord call watching TikToks that were being streamed. The friend who was streaming will be called "Sam". The friend I tried to prevent from being spoiled will be called "Pete". Pete just got started watching an anime that Sam and I are already caught up on. Well, a TikTok comes up that happens to be a fan animation of a scene that isn't currently in the anime yet. Sam repeatedly kept saying that it was a fan animation, as a means to focus on the animation itself rather than the lore attached to it. I spoke up, knowing full well that the scene would come up later in the manga, and said "Pete said no spoilers. Can we skip this?" Sam then snaps at me for pointing out saying "They wouldn't have known if you didn't point it out!" Pete leaves the call immediately. Sam groans at me and says "Dude it's on you that they know it's a spoiler. They would have been none the wiser if they just treated it as a FAN ANIMATION like I kept saying it was." I said they should have just skipped it because we both knew it was spoilers, and it's aggravating when they sit there and deflect all that. While I can admit that they may not have known if I hadn't said anything BUT they also could have simply moved on to the next video. So what do you think, Reddit? Am I the asshole for pointing it out or are they for showing spoilers in the first place?